There is a point where many people stop unnecessarily.<\/p>\n
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A no. <\/p>\n
A missed response. <\/p>\n
Something that is not received as you intended.<\/p>\n
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And immediately you think:<\/p>\n
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\u201cWas it my fault?\u201d<\/p>\n
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But in the vast majority of cases, that's not where the problem lies.<\/p>\n
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A no is rarely a judgment about you.<\/p>\n
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It is more often a signal of something much more concrete \u2013 something that can be adjusted.<\/p>\n
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Maybe it was the wrong timing.<\/p>\n
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Maybe it was the wrong context.<\/p>\n
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Maybe it was just unclear what you were actually offering.<\/p>\n
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The interesting thing is that the same idea, in a different situation, with a small adjustment, can work great.<\/p>\n
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See it as a system, not a defeat<\/strong><\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n If you instead start to see every attempt as a test, something important happens.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n You step out of the feeling of being judged \u2013<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n and into the role of someone who develops.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n You are testing a formulation.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n You are testing a target audience.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n You are testing a channel.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n And every time you get a no, you also get information.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n That's where the direction is.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Small adjustments make a big difference<\/strong><\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n It's easy to want to redo everything when something doesn't work.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n But often a small change is enough:<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n To reformulate a sentence.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n To address another person.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n To present it in a clearer way.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n When you change one thing at a time, it also becomes clearer what actually works.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n And suddenly you start to see patterns instead of resistance. \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Most people who get ahead don't do the right thing right away.<\/strong><\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Most people who succeed don't have a straight path.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n The difference is that they don't stop at the first obstacle.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n They adjust faster.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n They don't let a no be a stop.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n They take a different path.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Make it concrete.<\/strong><\/p> \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n The next time something doesn't work out, try:<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Stop for a moment and ask yourself:<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n What was I actually trying here?<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Then choose one thing to adjust.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Not all \u2013 just one.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n And decide right away when you try again.<\/p> \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n It doesn't have to be perfect.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n It just needs to be one step forward.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n End<\/strong><\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n A no doesn't mean you're wrong.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n It means you are on the move.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n And the faster you dare to adjust,<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n the faster you will find the right one.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n Take one of your last \u201cno\u201ds \u2013 and try again today.<\/p>\n \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n \n\n\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There is a point where many people stop unnecessarily. 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